Justin Bieber is having some real grown-up troubles

NEW YORK (AP) — In just four years, Justin Bieber has gone from fielding innocuous questions about his haircut to denying that he's in desperate need of rehab. Bieber's grown up and into tabloid territory, with his recent troubles making some question whether he's just the latest teen star gone wild.
Those incidents come after photos of Bieber appearing to smoke marijuana hit the Web, and some headlines have suggested that the ultra-popular star is going through a famous Britney Spears-style meltdown.
Others suggest he's struggling with a more common condition: being a teenager.
Donnie Wahlberg, who was just 14 when New Kids on the Block debuted on the music scene in the late 1980s to wild fan craze, said he remembers the pressure and hard times that came with being a teen celebrity.
"Justin Bieber's making mistakes that everyone makes and he's probably trying things and exploring things that most kids his age explore, but the problem is he's got 50 paparazzi chasing him around when he does it," 43-year-old Wahlberg said. "When we are 19 and 20, we think we can take on the world and we do forget that there is a lot of life left to live in front of us, and hopefully he'll get through these times and find his way into a long career and a healthy adulthood."
Bieber, his manager and his mother didn't respond to interview requests for this story. But the pressure was evident in the days following his collapse backstage at the O2 Arena, as the Grammy-nominated singer wrote on Instagram that he's sick of the "countless lies in the press" and that he would not be heading to rehab.
"I've accomplished more than I could've ever dreamed of, i'm 19 and it must be scary to some people to think that this is just the beginning," he wrote. "I'm a good person with a big heart. ... All this isn't easy. I get angry sometimes. I'm human. I'm gonna make mistakes."
Even mistakes seem like new territory for Bieber: Since breaking out at 15 he's seen five of his albums hit No. 1 on Billboard's 200 albums chart and nearly 20 songs crack the Top 40. He's had several world tours, launched a massively successful 3-D movie about his life and made deals that include his own dolls, nail polish and fragrances. He's got a social media presence that includes 52 million likes on Facebook and 36 million Twitter followers.
But does that leave any time to be a kid?
Nick Carter, considered the wildest of the Backstreet Boys, was also the group's youngest member when they began to dominate the music charts in the 1990s, and he recalls the days when he grew mad as an overworked teen who yearned for a normal life.
"I remember getting tired. I remember getting burned out and I'm like, 'Let me relax' and you have managers, and the record label ... and then before you know it, the artist gets resentful and starts to revolt against them and that's when you end up with a situation like what's going on," he said, referring to Bieber.
"In a lot of ways you're resentful and you're missing out with your friends, your childhood, you see all of your high school friends growing up ... and you're like, 'Oh, I got to go back on tour.'"
Vincent Herbert, the record executive who signed Lady Gaga and also discovered the teen R&B boy band Mindless Behavior and singer JoJo at 12, said that young singers need role models around them who are fit, and that there must be "time for music and time to be kids."
"I think sometimes young artists get to that (frustrated) point because they're young and it's a lot and it gets overwhelming. I don't think Justin Bieber is at that moment, I just think he had a bad week. That kid's a phenomenal artist, he's such a hardworking person, he's such a good kid," said Herbert.
But he acknowledges that for young artists, the pressure does sometimes lead to meltdowns: "No one's a machine — we're all human."
Spears became the poster child for that after she shaved her head and lost custody of her children, and more recently Demi Lovato checked into rehab because of an eating disorder and self-mutilation, though both have released successful music since. And many young members of Hollywood have been rebellious, used drugs and watched their careers falter, from Mackenzie Phillips to Corey Haim and Corey Feldman.
Carter said his bad attitude began to affect his business, and young singers must think twice about their actions even when they're at a breaking point. He says he's now working to rework those lost relationships.
"I probably messed up a particular movie I was going on an audition for because I showed up late and people looked at me like I was disrespecting them when really I was just out of my head," he said. "I've been for years right now scrounging and clawing and proving through my work and staying away from alcohol and trying to be the best person I can be to make up for all the things I've done, and that's been hard."
While Bieber, who was raised by a single mother in Canada, has held on to a pretty squeaky image, last year began to suggest some troubles: He vomited twice onstage during a concert in Glendale, Ariz., he was cited for speeding on a Los Angeles freeway and Los Angeles County Sheriff's investigators questioned the singer after he reportedly scuffled with paparazzi who tried to photograph him and then-girlfriend Selena Gomez as they left a movie theater.
"What he's going through ultimately is just the passage of adulthood and to go through that with this kind of scrutiny — it's hard," said Bill Werde, the editorial director of Billboard. "He's going to have to decide if he wants that or not. He's going to have to decide if he can handle the sort of bad that comes with the good."
Both Carter and Wahlberg are reluctant to give advice to Bieber simply because when they were in his position, they wouldn't have listened.
"The facts are that he's going to do what he wants to do," Carter said. "What happened to me when I was that age was the same thing — it's power. Your parents are telling you, 'Please don't do this, please don't do that' and you're looking at them going, 'Who are you? I am me.'"
Another LiLo in the making. Lessee, that would make him JuBi?
And I'll just add that the kid can sing and dance to perfection, play the drums, guitar, piano. What he is is an entertainer, and he has every girl within 5 years of his age in love with him. He has done what no other person has ever done before...... old folks gonna hate.
You all sound like a bunch of jealous old men and women to me. The kid right now is doing four or five concerts a week all over the world and they are all sold out. He is as big as Elvis Presley and the old folks hated him also. But getting sick makes Bieber a bad person? He came back out and finished his performance like the pro he is.
The movie Never Say Never which was made when he was 16 years old is amazing. Old folks gonna hate....
@Fast Eddy Though his act is not my cup of tea, the kid's "got it" and he's worked extremely hard to get where he is. You're right, he's an entertainer, and there is a large set of young girls that love him. Good for him. I hope he won't let the success spoil him and change who is is, but he's surrounded by solid people in Hollywood, like Will Smith, who has befriended and mentored him. I think he'll be fine.
@Scoondog Well what is sad is the "large set of young girls that love him." If this is the type of man they are dreaming about marrying someday, what does that make these girls. Lesbians? Because he looks and sounds like a female. My 14 year old daughter does not like this kid, but many of her friends do however the boys at their school stump me when I pick my daughter up. The majority of them are wearing skinny jeans, shaggy hair(all swept to one side covering one eye) and walk like teen girls. Where are the manly men? They are all so sensitive and weak these days.Â
Nail polish?
fainting back stage sounds like he's been hanging out with that IDIOT studio Ganster Lil. Wayne...
We knew this day was coming... When Beiber hit puberty
We create these people. We give them the attention and the money. We create these monsters.
@jowsuf Excuse moi, leave me out of the this we stuff. Only 10 year old girls with Hello Kitty jewelry and degenerates pay attention to Bieber
So? Anyone really surprised by this? What did ya expect? Personally, for me, I don't remember puberty being THAT hard! ;)
Seriously, this kid looks like Vanilla Ice.Â
@lakeview Now that you mention it, I can't get Ice Ice Baby out of my head. lol
Nothing a good ass beating won't help.....
These are not grownup problems, they're immature, selfish child in an adult body charges.Â
Grown adult men and grown adult women don't show up two hours late for their job, or vomit all over their workplace, or blame everyone but themselves for their own poor choices.Â
@MargeGunderson - but this adult just did all of that last paragraph. Although I'm not really sure this 19 year old is a grown man. He acts more like 13 than most 19 year olds.
@MargeGunderson --- True.Â
If he was my son he would get a big slap in the back of the head and told to grow up for heavens sake! What a brat at 19 years old, I would be embarrased if he was my son too.
I just wish he would pull his pants up. He looks like he is advertising to all the men that he is "available".
LOL collinwood, he was wishing he had more in there than he has!
Did his testicles finally drop?
@JeepRex What? He has those? I thought he was a girl!!!
Ward, is the Bieber back in the news again?
"Justin Bieber is having some real grown-up troubles"
Puberty?
No he is plain and simple a big brat!
Flash in the Pan...
Back to Canada
@Lrry*x*KÂ Canada doesn't want him either!
I am the last person who would ever really care about Beiber BUT I do think people expect to much of child stars, and most of the time even of teen and adult stars. This kid probably works harder than most of us do- just because he has a different "job" then we do and he is famous and makes a ton of money doesn't mean he doesn't need and deserve a break. Unfortunatly for him he isn't going to get the break he needs, the media will not leave him alone long enough. Think back to when you were 15-20 yrs old, how would you like it if EVERYTHING you did was brought to the attention of the entire world? Every time you tried to go out on a date, or went to the store, or messed up? Personally I am very glad the entire world doesn't know about my mistakes- after all some people can't let you forget your screw-ups- and the media will never let a person forget. If he smoked pot who cares? How many young adults tried it? I know I didn't but I will be honest and say that if I didn't have a major allergy to it I prob would have tried it at least once. Lets give the kids a break for a few weeks. Now if anyone ever tells my daughter I "defended" Beiber I will deny it- LOL
@MomOf2Â He doesn't help set up his shows or tear down them down. He shows up (sometimes late) to sing. When he is done, he goes backstage and maybe there are a few folks there that won backstage passes to meet Bieber but that's about it. If you take a look at the recording studios, the roadies and other folks in his life, THEY are doing the hard work and he is just reaping the rewards. You want to be in the lime light, you will be judged and stalked by the paparazzo.Â
LOL your secret is safe with us. But give him a break? He knew what he was getting in to. Ever see him pose like he is the best thing since sliced bread? He is an embarrasment to the teens that truly have their heads on straight and accept being an adult, he is an adult you know, but would never guess by the way he acts.
@wetrock - I'm not entirely sure any of these 'stars' know what they are getting into exactly. As far as posing like he's the best thing since sliced bread - all that attention he gets would go to most anybody's head. Not that I'm defending him, he is 19, not 9. He should grow up. There are ways to get out of the limelight if he really wanted to.
@wetrockÂ
The teens who have their heads on straight probably aren't listening to Beiber
No different than the young NBA star with millions or any pro sports player for that matter. Just barley out of the womb and making that kinda of money what do expect? Hey, give him a brake, he just shaved for the first time last week. He will crash and crash hard without someone kicking his butt. Enjoy while you can mom and dad because you will crash right along with him.
He is the quintessential little punk that needs a time-out in the corner for a bit.Â
agreed tattooed!
I wish this guy would go away already.
"I've accomplished more than I could've ever dreamed of, i'm 19 and it must be scary to some people to think that this is just the beginning..."
Yeah, I bet it's the beginning, all right - the beginning of the end!
Perhaps he will set a new record for achieving fame but then burning out and dying at a youngest of age. At least Elvis lasted until he was 42 and Whitney Houston till age 42 and Michael Jackson till age 50.  There have been others such as James Dean dying in a car crash at age 24 and Hank Williams at age 29 due to alcohol and drugs, but Hank did have a debilitating disease that caused intense pain. Cannot forget River Phoenix died at age 23 due to drugs, the youngest. Â
 But the pattern is there, seems like giant starts, the hotter they burn in the beginning the quicker they die in the end either from drugs or other causes. But then there is Madonna, one the brightest of them all and yet she has the tenacity to say screw the world I'm doing my own thing and managing my life as well. There are other successes like Ray Charles and Johnny Cash who did survive drugs to live to ripe old ages. So goes the world of fame and fortune and sometimes fortuneless.
I'm so tired of hearing about him.
I'm still waiting for the news that breaks about his cocaine & booze habit...and his coming out of the closet...
@Donkey Kong - does he come out of the closet while on cocaine and booze? ;) I'm geing silly - it's Friday afternoon.
I too remember how hard it was to be a teenage girl. I wish her all the best ; )
@Robinsnest Double thumbs up!!!!
Who cares, I agree.
@8nthegate Why click-through to read the story then?
whooooooooooooooooo cares this is not news
@bradYet here you are- clicking-through to read the story, then taking time out of your (obviously busy) life to comment about it.
@sims Beiber fan? Then sorry we're all offending you.
ROFLMAO