Dancing teen steps up to his bullies
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MOUNT VERNON, Wash. -- Kids can be inspiring, talented and amazing, but they can also be very cruel.
A local boy who only wants to express himself through dance has seen the cruelty of kids first hand, but he won't let it stop him.
When the beat begins, Julian Trevino is transported to a place that is his alone, a world of syncopated staccato fluidity in which his fingers and feet become extension of a force he can't fathom.
This is where he is happiest: living the music and the moment and the movement of dance.
Oscar Trevino picks up his son at the bus stop every day after school. Julian is 14, and bullies on the bus have made his dad's presence something of a ritual.
Every night it's the same thing for Julian. Homework first, always. Then he rolls up the rugs, kicks off his shoes, cues up his hero and does what comes naturally.
"As soon as I hear that bass and treble, all the planets are aligned for me," Julian said.
Oscar is well aware of his son's nightly routine.
"He dances every chance he gets, to and from his bedroom, through the living room, back to his bedroom," he said.
And the dancing isn't confined to his home. Home video shows Julian at a skating rink, with people watching, as he dances like there's nobody watching.
"I never took a personal dancing lesson. Never went to a class, none of that," Julian said.
He entered a talent show, and was hooked after hearing the girls scream for him.
But at school, not everyone approves of Julian, and he's often ridiculed for his dancing.
"Kids have challenged him to stop doing what he loves to do," Oscar said.
It was as if the more joy it brought him, the more some people wanted him to stop.
"At school, it happened a lot. (They say) 'you're gay, you're a faggot, you're a homo and that's so queer and everything like that.' It really hurt."
But they picked the wrong kid to pick on. Julian danced more, not less.
"I'm not going to stop dancing because of what you said. That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard," he said.
And so there he is, in downtown Mount Vernon, moonwalking through a crosswalk
While his dance moves are not meant for a novice, the most difficult thing for Julian is being different.
"You call me stupid, I don't care," he said. "I know who I am. I know what I am, and I don't need to take that kind of stuff from you, because I know I'm not. Up here, I know."
And a funny thing has been happening to Julian recently. Other kids have been showing up, drawn by the music and Julian's guts. And now they're dancing, too.
"They sometimes make fun of us, but some kids think it's pretty cool that we're putting ourselves out there," said fellow dancer Johnny Walker.
They plan on dancing for other kids. They want to talk to them about being bullied, being strong and the power that comes from being yourself.
For Julian Trevino, the dance has just started, and he won't stop until he gets enough.
"I want to wear the bullies out. Wear 'em out," he said.
Julian will soon be making appearances at school assemblies and church youth groups.
A local boy who only wants to express himself through dance has seen the cruelty of kids first hand, but he won't let it stop him.
When the beat begins, Julian Trevino is transported to a place that is his alone, a world of syncopated staccato fluidity in which his fingers and feet become extension of a force he can't fathom.
This is where he is happiest: living the music and the moment and the movement of dance.
Oscar Trevino picks up his son at the bus stop every day after school. Julian is 14, and bullies on the bus have made his dad's presence something of a ritual.
Every night it's the same thing for Julian. Homework first, always. Then he rolls up the rugs, kicks off his shoes, cues up his hero and does what comes naturally.
"As soon as I hear that bass and treble, all the planets are aligned for me," Julian said.
Oscar is well aware of his son's nightly routine.
"He dances every chance he gets, to and from his bedroom, through the living room, back to his bedroom," he said.
And the dancing isn't confined to his home. Home video shows Julian at a skating rink, with people watching, as he dances like there's nobody watching.
"I never took a personal dancing lesson. Never went to a class, none of that," Julian said.
He entered a talent show, and was hooked after hearing the girls scream for him.
But at school, not everyone approves of Julian, and he's often ridiculed for his dancing.
"Kids have challenged him to stop doing what he loves to do," Oscar said.
It was as if the more joy it brought him, the more some people wanted him to stop.
"At school, it happened a lot. (They say) 'you're gay, you're a faggot, you're a homo and that's so queer and everything like that.' It really hurt."
But they picked the wrong kid to pick on. Julian danced more, not less.
"I'm not going to stop dancing because of what you said. That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard," he said.
And so there he is, in downtown Mount Vernon, moonwalking through a crosswalk
While his dance moves are not meant for a novice, the most difficult thing for Julian is being different.
"You call me stupid, I don't care," he said. "I know who I am. I know what I am, and I don't need to take that kind of stuff from you, because I know I'm not. Up here, I know."
And a funny thing has been happening to Julian recently. Other kids have been showing up, drawn by the music and Julian's guts. And now they're dancing, too.
"They sometimes make fun of us, but some kids think it's pretty cool that we're putting ourselves out there," said fellow dancer Johnny Walker.
They plan on dancing for other kids. They want to talk to them about being bullied, being strong and the power that comes from being yourself.
For Julian Trevino, the dance has just started, and he won't stop until he gets enough.
"I want to wear the bullies out. Wear 'em out," he said.
Julian will soon be making appearances at school assemblies and church youth groups.
Julian is an inspiration! I wish I had as much wisdom when I was his age. The most important thing in life you can do for yourself is to be yourself. I actually didnât learn that until I turned 30! Watching him dance makes me happy and I am super proud of him and his parents. Keep up the amazing dancing- Itâs great for the Soul!
I'll bet the bullies will be working in the fast food joints mopping floors while Julian lives the high life.
I love this Julian ! Â You are totally inspiring. Those other jamokes are just plain ignorant. How about organizing a flash mob up there to dance with you? I am in !!! Â Best ! meg
@Meg Myhre I want to help Julian too but I don't know how.Â
@Julian please let us know how we can help you! I was bullied as a kid. I am a grown up now. I would love to help you get your message out in any way I can.
i know that dude!
Awesome story about an awesome kid!
@EricJohnsonKOMO Great story!
@Julian Keep on dancing! Do you have a website or something where we can get updates from you?
Jullian, You are amazing! Thank you for being a MJ fan too and for living the dream! I love MJ and am so proud of your carrying on his amazing dancing!
@EricJohnsonKOMO Love this kid!!! Thank you for the story!
@TeriLinWA He's something special isn't he? You know, I can dance like that!
@EricJohnsonKOMO Yes, he is very special! He has talent and knows who he is - at 14!! Gotta get this story out!
@EricJohnsonKOMO Really! Well I will be looking for the video of you dancing like MJ & this kid at 11! :) #MustSeeTV
@TeriLinWA thanks Teri! We'll keep 'em coming!
Julian - you are my hero! You go guy! and I love your dancing - it is so very much like Michael's it brought tears to my eyes. May your dance be an inspriation to those who are bullied and to all of us - it's so great to hear and see a true story like this one! You give a lot of class to wherever you go! Awesome! :)
@EricJohnsonKOMO that is a great story Eric! Well done!
@mattbloog Thanks Matt! Great stories are easy to tell! Know what I mean?
@EricJohnsonKOMO yes for sure Eric! Keep on telling them.
Keep on dancing Julian! Kudos to you for not allowing the bullies to control what you do!  I hope that a dance instructor reads this and would be willing to step in and give him some lessons and maybe set him up to do shows, etc. if that is what he wants to do. Â
Julian has a very fine natural talent. Get him in lessons for some expert instruction to refine that talent, if that is possible. I love to watch people who love to dance!
Michael Jackson was certainly weird. But you know what he was called and still is the king of pop and danced the way many dances still to this day wish they could. Good for this kid learning his dance moves and enjoying the good music Mr. Jackson put out. Especially when you consider some of the dancing out there today. As to the bullies⦠they only wish they could do the moves this kid is doing.
Can't dance worth mentioning -- or even trying really -- but I'll tip my hat and bow to acknowledge Julian's talent and drive ... and his very real courage which is exactly what the bullies lack so egregiously.
So happy to hear about Julian. Being yourself should be celebrated, not shunned. He's not "different;" he's doing what makes him happy - Good job Julian - you have more fans than bullies, so keep your chin up and be proud of who you are! I love seeing people who are brave enough to be themselves.
You can dance without being bullied. Half of my husband's gymnastic team were in ballet and gave performaces.Â
Knowing who you are, and that you don't need others acceptance to define who you are, is a wonderful thing. Most kids are lost, in the manner that they don't have this level of self worth, and self confidence at this age. His parents did an excellent job of raising him..
What is great, is it is catching on... like a virus.... a good virus at that..
@Mr. HÂ - that's just what the bullies don't have - is what this kid has - real self-esteem and real confidence.
Talent is not strange. Â Got it? Â Flaunt it.
Gosh, this gave me tears in my eyes; I love Julian! Â He has wisdom at 14 that some never attain. Â It's kids like this who know who they are who go on to do great things. Â My similar friend from class of '81 is an actor in Montreal. Â My friend's kid is headed to the Big Apple. Â The bullies end up being like Uncle Rico in Napolean Dynamite - forever trying to relive their glory days. Â Julian, you rock, keep on doing what makes you happy because it makes others happy too and really makes your bullies look even more stupid. Â You are going to have a good life, I just know it!
sweety!
Here is another classic case of someone different being picked on by bullies only he is able to rise above them and continue doing what he likes to do. He is one of the lucky ones, but what about those who cannot rise above their abuse. This boy is able to take the abuse and dance it off while those slugs continue to crawl around trying to bring him and others down to their level. I can only hope others will see that those bullies are only a small segment of their lives and to find ways to rise above them.
Ok.....I wish I could dance like that.
I know well the feeling when the bass and the treble begin and the feet just know what to do. In tune, in step, in movement, go for it and never allow they who have no soul hurt yours...keep on dancing.
I bet Michael Jackson, Justin Timberlake and Fred Astaire were also bullied for dancing...guess they got the last laugh!
^5 Julian...dance like nobody is looking!!!!!!
All I've got to say to these bullies is "F*** you! You really think he's gonna stop because you think he needs to stop? Why? Just S.T.F.U!!!" And to Julian, "Just keep it goin'! Do what your heart desires and do it as long as you want!"