Attorney: Man who shot masked son 'utterly devastated'

NEW HAVEN, Conn. (AP) - A popular teacher who fatally shot a knife-wielding prowler in a ski mask and then learned it was his 15-year-old son is devastated and filled with questions about what the boy was doing, his attorney said Monday.
Jeffrey Giuliano went outside with a gun around 1 a.m. Thursday when his sister called to say someone was trying to break into her house next door in New Fairfield, a town of nearly 14,000 people about 50 miles from New York city. Giuliano saw a masked person holding a weapon come toward him in a threatening manner and shot him, state police said. He learned later the person he killed was his son Tyler Giuliano.
Jeffrey Giuliano, a fifth-grade teacher at a nearby school, and his wife "are not well," his attorney Gene Zingaro said.
"Their family is hurting," Zingaro said. "They've been broken in half by this unspeakable tragedy, which really is three tragedies all in one."
Giuliano and his wife don't know what Tyler, who didn't have any trouble with the law, was doing, Zingaro said.
"The family has literally hundreds of questions as to what Tyler was doing, why he was wearing what he was and why he was carrying what he was," Zingaro said. "Those questions will probably go unanswered forever."
Giuliano and his wife cooperated immediately with authorities, allowing them to search their home without a warrant and giving a sworn statement, Zingaro said. He called it a justifiable shooting and said Giuliano had a permit to carry the gun.
"In my opinion, Mr. Giuliano will not be charged with any type of offense, weapon or otherwise," Zingaro said.
Zingaro said when he arrived at the scene shortly after the shooting, Giuliano was inconsolable and physically ill. He said Giuliano cried and vomited.
"He was in disbelief and a state of shock," Zingaro said.
Shortly after the shooting Giuliano, feared it was his son he had shot, but he didn't receive confirmation for at least several hours, Zingaro said. The fears, Zingaro said, were based on the fact that Giuliano learned his son was missing and other reasons the attorney would not discuss, citing the ongoing investigation.
Giuliano sustained a back injury during the shooting, Zingaro said, but he would not say if that was because of physical contact with Tyler.
State police say they are continuing to investigate the shooting. No charges have been filed.
Giuliano and his wife adopted Tyler and his sister about four years ago. The children's biological father was heading to prison, and the children would have gone into an orphanage if the couple, who had three other children, had not adopted them, Zingaro said.
Tyler and his adoptive father shared a love of music and the Civilian Air Patrol, in which Tyler served as a cadet and enjoyed flying gliders and small aircraft, Zingaro said.
Giuliano, affectionately known around Meeting House Hill School as Mr. G, grew up in New Fairfield, an hour's drive northwest of New Haven. He holds summer music and zoology camps for his students and plays guitar in a local rock band that raises money for charity, schools superintendent Alicia Roy said.
Giuliano attended a memorial service for his son on Sunday night. He was "in a state of extreme anguish" and was "utterly devastated," Zingaro said.
"It's a loss that cannot be measured," he said.
Jeffrey Giuliano went outside with a gun around 1 a.m. Thursday when his sister called to say someone was trying to break into her house next door in New Fairfield, a town of nearly 14,000 people about 50 miles from New York city. Giuliano saw a masked person holding a weapon come toward him in a threatening manner and shot him, state police said. He learned later the person he killed was his son Tyler Giuliano.
Jeffrey Giuliano, a fifth-grade teacher at a nearby school, and his wife "are not well," his attorney Gene Zingaro said.
"Their family is hurting," Zingaro said. "They've been broken in half by this unspeakable tragedy, which really is three tragedies all in one."
Giuliano and his wife don't know what Tyler, who didn't have any trouble with the law, was doing, Zingaro said.
"The family has literally hundreds of questions as to what Tyler was doing, why he was wearing what he was and why he was carrying what he was," Zingaro said. "Those questions will probably go unanswered forever."
Giuliano and his wife cooperated immediately with authorities, allowing them to search their home without a warrant and giving a sworn statement, Zingaro said. He called it a justifiable shooting and said Giuliano had a permit to carry the gun.
"In my opinion, Mr. Giuliano will not be charged with any type of offense, weapon or otherwise," Zingaro said.
Zingaro said when he arrived at the scene shortly after the shooting, Giuliano was inconsolable and physically ill. He said Giuliano cried and vomited.
"He was in disbelief and a state of shock," Zingaro said.
Shortly after the shooting Giuliano, feared it was his son he had shot, but he didn't receive confirmation for at least several hours, Zingaro said. The fears, Zingaro said, were based on the fact that Giuliano learned his son was missing and other reasons the attorney would not discuss, citing the ongoing investigation.
Giuliano sustained a back injury during the shooting, Zingaro said, but he would not say if that was because of physical contact with Tyler.
State police say they are continuing to investigate the shooting. No charges have been filed.
Giuliano and his wife adopted Tyler and his sister about four years ago. The children's biological father was heading to prison, and the children would have gone into an orphanage if the couple, who had three other children, had not adopted them, Zingaro said.
Tyler and his adoptive father shared a love of music and the Civilian Air Patrol, in which Tyler served as a cadet and enjoyed flying gliders and small aircraft, Zingaro said.
Giuliano, affectionately known around Meeting House Hill School as Mr. G, grew up in New Fairfield, an hour's drive northwest of New Haven. He holds summer music and zoology camps for his students and plays guitar in a local rock band that raises money for charity, schools superintendent Alicia Roy said.
Giuliano attended a memorial service for his son on Sunday night. He was "in a state of extreme anguish" and was "utterly devastated," Zingaro said.
"It's a loss that cannot be measured," he said.
Wow... um... you ANNOUNCE... THEN if you get no response and/or they CHARGE you THEN you shoot. "Don't come any closer or I will shoot you" would be met with a response of "DAD, IT'S ME! DON'T SHOOT". Rocket science. Why is it people always shoot first and ask questions later? Stupid and irresponsible mistake he has to live with for the rest of his life.
 @slappywag Because that's how people get killed.
So devastating all the way around. I have three sons and I honestly don't know how I could breathe again after such heartbreak. Prayers of peace going out to the family.
mstipton,my my my .hope all is well .
This is a real tragedy.
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I can't imagine the pain this family is going through, and I imagine that the guilt is going to be there forever. While the father was trying to do the right thing - he will question this, and it will haunt him forever.
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God, I ask in the name of Christ, that you help this family.
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Sad, sad thing to happen. I hope the family can find some answers and peace when all is said and done.
How's that gun thing working out for you?
 @mstipton Ass!
shut up dou che bag! That is totally uncalled for.
@mstipton I kind of agree with you, although I wouldn't quite phrase it that way. More like, how does that "kill first, ask question later" attitude working out? He didn't have to shoot to kill. It doesn't sound like he was rushed.
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The story also sounds really fishy. It's as if they're unconvincingly trying to paint a more solid picture of self-defense, when it was more like a case of trigger-happiness. The law is on his side either way. As for the guilt, only God knows how much he should feel.
@mstipton Just like it should. A masked threat is a masked threat.
 @mstipton Don't turn a tragedy into a political argument. The focus should be on the family. This was cut and dry justifiable.
 @mstipton That is really all you got out of this article? Geesh! This is sad beyond words. Just think how this father feels! He will be questioning those moments over and over, probably forever. Your comment is out of line!Â
 @mstipton wow that's cold.. would you go to James Dean's accident site and say : "How is that sports car working out"? Probably not. But Dean was probably acting a lot less responsibly.
I think you are far off with your comment.Â
Does that remark make you feel better? Perhaps holier than thou?
I suppose you're thinking he'd rather be stabbed to death than defend himself when attacked?
 @mstipton That was uncalled for.
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If the prowler came at him with a knife, regardless of if it was his son or not, he had a right to defend himself. If it hadn't been his son (or even if it had, since he came at him with knife in hand), and he hadn't been carrying a pistol he most likely would be dead right now, and his sister may have been badly injured in her home, or possibly also killed. We don't know what that boy's intentions were in that house, or why he had a knife.
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I'm a bit confused by your comment here. You state you "don't know what that boy's intentions were"; but yet you also state that the father would "most likely would be dead right now and his sister may have been badly injured or possibly killed"
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Without knowing what the boy's intentions were how can you be certain about what most likely would have happened. Perhaps this boy was trying to play some type of practical joke and things got out of hand and what the father perceived as someone coming toward him in a threatening manner was a kid coming at him in the dark raising his hands.
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Things happen fast and more often that people like to admit perceptions are not reality. I don't blame the father as much as question his decision making and feel it is right to question if he had properly trained with his fire arm. Plus this serves as a good reminder to all of us who own firearms, myself included, make sure you can live with killing what you are shooting at before you pull the trigger because you can stop that bullet once the hammer is dropped.