Girl fights for right to her own name

REYKJAVIK, Iceland (AP) - Call her the girl with no name.
A 15-year-old is suing the Icelandic state for the right to legally use the name given to her by her mother. The problem? Blaer, which means "light breeze" in Icelandic, is not on a list approved by the government.
Like a handful of other countries, including Germany and Denmark, Iceland has official rules about what a baby can be named. In a country comfortable with a firm state role, most people don't question the Personal Names Register, a list of 1,712 male names and 1,853 female names that fit Icelandic grammar and pronunciation rules and that officials maintain will protect children from embarrassment. Parents can take from the list or apply to a special committee that has the power to say yea or nay.
In Blaer's case, her mother said she learned the name wasn't on the register only after the priest who baptized the child later informed her he had mistakenly allowed it.
"I had no idea that the name wasn't on the list, the famous list of names that you can choose from," said Bjork Eidsdottir, adding she knew a Blaer whose name was accepted in 1973. This time, the panel turned it down on the grounds that the word Blaer takes a masculine article, despite the fact that it was used for a female character in a novel by Iceland's revered Nobel Prize-winning author Halldor Laxness.
Given names are even more significant in tiny Iceland that in many other countries: Everyone is listed in the phone book by their first names. Surnames are based on a parent's given name. Even the president, Olafur Ragnar Grimsson, is addressed simply as Olafur.
Blaer is identified as "Stulka" - or "girl" - on all her official documents, which has led to years of frustration as she has had to explain the whole story at the bank, renewing her passport and dealing with the country's bureaucracy.
Her mother is hoping that will change with her suit, the first time someone has challenged a names committee decision in court.
Though the law has become more relaxed in recent years - with the name Elvis permitted, inspired by the charismatic rock and roll icon whose name fits Icelandic guidelines - choices like Cara, Carolina, Cesil, and Christa have been rejected outright because the letter "c'' is not part of Iceland's 32-letter alphabet.
"The law is pretty straightforward so in many cases it's clearly going to be a yes or a no," said Agusta Thorbergsdottir, the head of the committee, a panel of three people appointed by the government to a four-year term.
Other cases are more subjective.
"What one person finds beautiful, another person may find ugly," she acknowledged. She pointed to "Satania" as one unacceptable case because it was deemed too close to "Satan."
The board also has veto power over people who want to change their names later in life, rejecting, for instance, middle names like Zeppelin and X.
When the artist Birgir Orn Thoroddsen applied to have his name legally changed to Curver, which he had used in one form or another since age 15, he said he knew full well the committee would reject his application.
"I was inspired by Prince who changed his name to The Artist Formerly Known As Prince and Puff Daddy who changed his to P. Diddy and then Diddy with seemingly little thought or criticism," he said. "I applied to the committee, but of course I got the 'No' that I expected."
On his thirtieth birthday, he bought a full-page advertisement that read, "From February 1, 2006, I hereby change my name to Curver Thoroddsen. I ask the nation, my friends and colleagues to respect my decision."
"I can understand a clause to protect children from being named something like 'Dog poo,' but it is strange that an adult cannot change his name to what he truly wants," he said.
Thoroddsen is keeping his protest to the media. But Eidsdottir says she is prepared to take her case all the way to the country's Supreme Court if a court doesn't overturn the commission decision on Jan. 25.
"So many strange names have been allowed, which makes this even more frustrating because Blaer is a perfectly Icelandic name," Eidsdottir said. "It seems like a basic human right to be able to name your child what you want, especially if it doesn't harm your child in any way."
"And my daughter loves her name," she added.
A 15-year-old is suing the Icelandic state for the right to legally use the name given to her by her mother. The problem? Blaer, which means "light breeze" in Icelandic, is not on a list approved by the government.
Like a handful of other countries, including Germany and Denmark, Iceland has official rules about what a baby can be named. In a country comfortable with a firm state role, most people don't question the Personal Names Register, a list of 1,712 male names and 1,853 female names that fit Icelandic grammar and pronunciation rules and that officials maintain will protect children from embarrassment. Parents can take from the list or apply to a special committee that has the power to say yea or nay.
In Blaer's case, her mother said she learned the name wasn't on the register only after the priest who baptized the child later informed her he had mistakenly allowed it.
"I had no idea that the name wasn't on the list, the famous list of names that you can choose from," said Bjork Eidsdottir, adding she knew a Blaer whose name was accepted in 1973. This time, the panel turned it down on the grounds that the word Blaer takes a masculine article, despite the fact that it was used for a female character in a novel by Iceland's revered Nobel Prize-winning author Halldor Laxness.
Given names are even more significant in tiny Iceland that in many other countries: Everyone is listed in the phone book by their first names. Surnames are based on a parent's given name. Even the president, Olafur Ragnar Grimsson, is addressed simply as Olafur.
Blaer is identified as "Stulka" - or "girl" - on all her official documents, which has led to years of frustration as she has had to explain the whole story at the bank, renewing her passport and dealing with the country's bureaucracy.
Her mother is hoping that will change with her suit, the first time someone has challenged a names committee decision in court.
Though the law has become more relaxed in recent years - with the name Elvis permitted, inspired by the charismatic rock and roll icon whose name fits Icelandic guidelines - choices like Cara, Carolina, Cesil, and Christa have been rejected outright because the letter "c'' is not part of Iceland's 32-letter alphabet.
"The law is pretty straightforward so in many cases it's clearly going to be a yes or a no," said Agusta Thorbergsdottir, the head of the committee, a panel of three people appointed by the government to a four-year term.
Other cases are more subjective.
"What one person finds beautiful, another person may find ugly," she acknowledged. She pointed to "Satania" as one unacceptable case because it was deemed too close to "Satan."
The board also has veto power over people who want to change their names later in life, rejecting, for instance, middle names like Zeppelin and X.
When the artist Birgir Orn Thoroddsen applied to have his name legally changed to Curver, which he had used in one form or another since age 15, he said he knew full well the committee would reject his application.
"I was inspired by Prince who changed his name to The Artist Formerly Known As Prince and Puff Daddy who changed his to P. Diddy and then Diddy with seemingly little thought or criticism," he said. "I applied to the committee, but of course I got the 'No' that I expected."
On his thirtieth birthday, he bought a full-page advertisement that read, "From February 1, 2006, I hereby change my name to Curver Thoroddsen. I ask the nation, my friends and colleagues to respect my decision."
"I can understand a clause to protect children from being named something like 'Dog poo,' but it is strange that an adult cannot change his name to what he truly wants," he said.
Thoroddsen is keeping his protest to the media. But Eidsdottir says she is prepared to take her case all the way to the country's Supreme Court if a court doesn't overturn the commission decision on Jan. 25.
"So many strange names have been allowed, which makes this even more frustrating because Blaer is a perfectly Icelandic name," Eidsdottir said. "It seems like a basic human right to be able to name your child what you want, especially if it doesn't harm your child in any way."
"And my daughter loves her name," she added.
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Don't care what any of you think, I want to move there now.
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We could use that list here....the "Javontes" and "Shaniquas" are getting on my nerves.
I have a name for the Mom......Ms. McHottie........
 @ALTemp I believe the approved spelling is "Fru Hojttie"
Blaer = no
Bjork = yes
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I don't see how Blaer could be any worse than the name Bjork.  Just sayin'.....
@Shelly You might need to be from Iceland, Norway, or some place like that in order to even sort of be able to understand it. Or if not, some research might help with understanding.
Can you imagine the screams of racism if America had such a law?Â
Just a different culture.Â
Reading the comments posted reminds me of the name of Hawkeye's sidekick in "M.A.S.H." - B J...Mother was "Bea", dad was "Jay"...the son's name was just the initials...
Another bad idea from Europe that the left will doubtless wish to import soon.
@70MonteCarlo You obviously have no idea what you are even talking about. Obviously. It would more likely be the right and extreme right that would prefer laws like this. Just look at some of what they want plus look at some of the comments from the right regarding the story.
 @70MonteCarlo Excuse me for being among the liberals that you so despise. But I think this law is insane!
 @70MonteCarlo I hope not, this NANNY STATE stuff is driving me NUTZ!  This is not the same country I was born & raised in. Â
 @K. Coleman You were born and raised in a different country?
Welcome to Obamacare.
@KOMO_Sapiens You appear to be the missing link that anthropologists have spent so much time looking for. Please turn yourself in.
 @KOMO_Sapiens Are you serious? How the ____ -does this have anything to do with the president!?Â
 @Steve Giovanis Or anything to do with healthcare?Â
 @MargeGunderson  @Steve Giovanis This has got to be some sort of a bot that sees the word government in an article and posts an automated response. Why anyone would create such a bot, I have no idea.
Leave the country if they will not change the rules. They need you more than you need them.
I know they got some strange names for all their butt kicking volcano's up there..
Government run amok. And yet, on another front, they were also the country that (correctly) jailed bankers for their part in the economic disaster starting in 2008 and reformed their goverment by way of a new constitution. How is it possible that this foolishness of names is allowed?
@ETSubmariner ...um no, we're the ones w/ the foolishness of names, e.g. Shaniqua, Javonte etc.
 @ETSubmariner Complete speculation here, but if their system is anything at all like ours even the simplest issue is ballooned into a 400-page convoluted bill including dozens of completely unrelated topics, laws, policies, etc.
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If so, this could be one of many where they finally somehow had consensus on the main point and most of the others, and just gave up on this one as collateral damage to finally get something passed after wasting hundreds of hours of floor time bogged down in petty squabbles and minutia.Â
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 @ETSubmariner "How is it possible that this foolishness of names is allowed?"
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Just playing devil's advocate, I am sure they ask the same about America and gun violence, drugs, drunk driving...
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They do... In Italy, France, et-al.. they all wonder about us... I've heard it first-hand.
I would get hell for my sons name, or I should say initials. I seem to get all kinds of crap from people that find out about his initials, and I just say I named my son, not initial him. He is of course K.K.K.Â
 @Just my say I sincerely hope that your son has the good sense to sue you for child abuse.
 @OrcasThunder  Was that sarcasm?
 @OrcasThunder  @jowsuf  @Just my say I went to school with someone named Kelly Kelly Kelly.  None of us ever thought about the K.K.K. part.  Of course it may have been because the rest of it was too stinking funny.  I'm pretty sure most people just don't pay attention to that kind of stuff.
 @jowsuf  @Just my say I sincerely hope that you are right - but I expect that you are fooling yourself if you think it won't happen. Just think on this - YOU thought it was "enough" to bring it up in the first place, so you must have some clue as to the potential.
Speaking from my own experience, my initials "SMO" caused no end of angst due to people who insisted there was an "h" following the "s"...and that's really a fairly benign example.
 @OrcasThunder  @Just my say With all due respect, I think that's exaggerating things a bit much. Most people never learn each others middle names. Plus, even if they found out his initials were KKK, I really don't think even kids would find it humorous enough to make fun of. That's a bit of a stretch, I think.
 @Just my say  @jowsuf Fair enough - but that load of crap you say you get over the initials should be a clue as to the kind of reception your son will get in many school situations as he grows up. Do you really want to place that kind of burden on his shoulders?
And, be sure to make sure he knows that he can go to court to change it himself.
 @jowsuf To the degree that "Just my say's" post was intended to be "humor", yes. Assuming the initials were intended to be like the song "The boy named Sue"...
But I really don't see that set of initials as "humorous".
 @jowsuf  @OrcasThunder I was trying to figure that out myself, but if its not, oh well. Their is always someone who does not agree with how you raise your child and thinks its abuse. Just so you know *OcrasThunder, his name is from family. My husband was over seas and he wanted him name after people he respected in his life. I was going to ask to change the spelling of his middle name but I had him three months early. I never got the chance to talk to him about it. I kept everything the same for out of respect for my husband.Â
For my next child, I'm going to subscribe to the Pootie Tang methodology and either call him/her the silent scream he does for a song, or give him/her a crazy jive/scat name that takes forever to pronounce. Â Tradition be damned!
That's what I love about USA. If I wanted to, but don't, I could name my baby Adolph Hitler Jones III
I asked a friend in Iceland about this...Â
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"...arguments about the "list" of allowed names are not uncommon, I'm glad to hear someone is standing up to these rules, wich in many cases are absurd. Just for example, this woman could have legally named her son "Ljótur" (which means "Ugly" in modern icelandic but used to mean "beautiful, ironically enough) or "Ormur" (which just means worm), so I'm very surprised Blær has caused such a stir. Its a very feminine sounding name in Icelandic, yet its only legal as a boys name"
 @wsmith_84 Well, from a country whose primary language evolved the definition of "gay" from happy to describing one's sexual preference, and lost a half-dozen or so male names as euphemisms for penis, we really don't have a lot of room to criticize a word for beauty evolving to mean ugly. :^D
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 @wsmith_84 What happens if a person is homosexual? Do they change the name to fit the preference?
Legislating what name you can call your children for "their protection".....sadly, sounds like something I'd hear in our government these days. Just proof that no matter where you go, there are stupid people who can yell loud enough and get something passed by the people that works against their own self interest.
 @dg54321 Tim Eymen any one...
Why should we really be concerned in the US ? Let the people of Iceland put it to a public vote to keep or dismiss their approved naming list.
 @SkaBob I agree we have no part in the decision-making process, but it is interesting to learn how other countries do things.Â
This summer I learned of a little girl named "a-a" Seriously. Pronounced Adasha...
Wow, they look like they're sisters!!
 @DMT They are both good looking, but the mother is drop dead gorgeous.
 @contraryjim True that!
@DMT exactly what I was thinking.