Fewer 9/11 families on hand for 11th anniversary

NEW YORK (AP) - Americans paused again Tuesday to mark the 11th anniversary of the Sept. 11, 2001, terror attacks with familiar ceremony, but also a sense that it's time to move forward after a decade of remembrance.
As in past years, thousands gathered at the World Trade Center site in New York, the Pentagon and Shanksville, Pa., to read the names of nearly 3,000 victims killed in the worst terror attack in U.S. history. President Barack Obama was to attend the Pentagon memorial, and Vice President Joe Biden was to speak in Pennsylvania.
But many felt that last year's 10th anniversary was an emotional turning point for public mourning of the attacks. For the first time, elected officials weren't speaking at the ceremony, which often allowed them a solemn turn in the spotlight, but raised questions about the public and private Sept. 11. Fewer families attended the ceremonies this year, and some cities canceled their remembrances altogether.
"I feel much more relaxed" this year, said Jane Pollicino, who came to ground zero Tuesday morning to remember her husband, who was killed at the trade center. "After the ninth anniversary, that next day, you started building up to the 10th year. This feels a lot different, in that regard. It's another anniversary that we can commemorate in a calmer way, without that 10-year pressure."
As bagpipes played at the year-old Sept. 11 memorial in New York, family clutching balloons, flowers and photos of their loved ones bowed their heads in silence at 8:46 a.m., the moment that the first hijacked jetliner crashed into the trade center's north tower, and again to mark the crashes into the second tower, the Pentagon and a Pennsylvania field.
President Barack Obama and first lady Michelle Obama observed the moment in a ceremony on the White House's south lawn, and then laid a white floral wreath at the Pentagon, above a concrete slab that said "Sept. 11, 2001 - 937 am."
Victims' families in New York began the solemn, familiar ritual of tearfully reading the names of nearly 3,000 killed, with personal messages to their lost loved ones.
"Rick, can you hear your name as the roll is called again? On this sacred ground where your dust settled?" said Richard Blood, whose son, Richard Middleton Blood, Jr., died in the trade center's south tower. "If only those who hear your name could know what a loving son and beautiful person you grew to be. I love you, son, and miss you terribly."
Thousands had attended the ceremony in New York in previous years, including last year's milestone 10th anniversary. About 1,000 gathered by Tuesday morning, making paper rubbings of their loved ones' names etched onto the Sept. 11 memorial.
Commuters rushed out of the subway and fewer police barricades were in place than in past years in the lower Manhattan neighborhood surrounding ground zero. More than 4 million people have visited the memorial in the past year, becoming more of a public space than a closed-off construction site. On Tuesday, much of downtown Manhattan bustled like a regular weekday, except for clusters of police and emergency vehicles on the borders of the site.
Families had a mixed reaction to the changing ceremony, which kept politicians away from the microphone in New York for the first time. Charles G. Wolf, whose wife, Katherine, was killed at the trade center, said: "We've gone past that deep, collective public grief." But Pollicino said it's important that politicians still attend the ceremony.
"There's something missing if they're not here at all," she said. "Now, all of a sudden, it's 'for the families.' This happened to our country - it didn't happen only to me."
And Joe Torres, who put in 16-hour days in ground zero's "pit" in the days after the attacks, cleaning up tons of debris, said another year has changed nothing for him.
"The 11th year, for me, it's the same as if it happened yesterday. It could be 50 years from now, and to me, it'll be just as important as year one, or year five or year ten."
Political leaders still are welcome to attend the ground zero ceremony, and they are expected at the other commemorations, as well.
The Obamas planned later to visit wounded soldiers at Walter Reed Army Medical Center. The U.S. terror attacks were followed by wars in Afghanistan and Iraq, where the U.S. military death toll years ago surpassed the 9/11 victim count. At least 1,987 U.S. troops have died in Afghanistan and 4,475 in Iraq, according to the Pentagon.
Allied military forces marked the anniversary at a short ceremony at NATO's headquarters in Kabul, Afghanistan with a tribute to more than 3,000 foreign troops killed in the decade-long war.
"Eleven years on from that day there should be no doubt that our dedication to this commitment, that commitment that was seared into our souls that day so long ago, remains strong and unshaken," said Marine Gen. John Allen, the top commander of U.S. and coalition troops.
Scores gathered at the Flight 93 National Memorial in western Pennsylvania, where the fourth hijacked plane crashed into a Pennsylvania field. Biden and Secretary of the Interior Ken Salazar were to speak at the ceremony for the flight's 40 victims.
Other ceremonies were held across the country - from New York's Long Island, where hundreds wrote messages to their loved ones on a memorial, to Boston, where more than 200 people with ties to Massachusetts were remembered. But some cities scaled back - the suburb of Glen Rock, N.J., where 11 people were killed, did not hold a memorial this year for the first time. Past events often ran for several hours, with speeches, music and the laying of roses in front of a granite memorial built with remnants of trade center steel.
"It was appropriate for this year - not that the losses will ever be forgotten," said Brad Jordan, chairman of a community group that helps victims' families. "But we felt it was right to shift the balance a bit from the observance of loss to a commemoration of how the community came together to heal."
The anniversary led to a brief pause in the presidential campaign as Obama and Republican challenger Mitt Romney pulled their negative ads and avoided campaign rallies. Romney shook hands with firefighters at Chicago's O'Hare Airport and was flying to Nevada to address the National Guard, whose members deployed after the attacks. His running mate, Rep. Paul Ryan of Wisconsin, had no scheduled public events.
The memorial foundation announced this summer that politicians wouldn't be included this year, to separate politics from the ceremony. But others said keeping elected officials off the rostrum smacked of ... politics. And several said they were unwilling to let go.
"Coming here, it's like ripping off a Band-Aid," said Yasmin Leon, whose sister was killed at the trade center. "You rip it off and the wound is opened again. But you keep coming back anyway."
And at ground zero, family members reading their loved ones' names said the passage of time did not change their grief.
"Mark, they say time heals all wounds. It's not true, Mark," said Joanne Hindy, whose nephew died in the north tower. "There's a void in all our lives because this that will never ever be filled or healed."
As in past years, thousands gathered at the World Trade Center site in New York, the Pentagon and Shanksville, Pa., to read the names of nearly 3,000 victims killed in the worst terror attack in U.S. history. President Barack Obama was to attend the Pentagon memorial, and Vice President Joe Biden was to speak in Pennsylvania.
But many felt that last year's 10th anniversary was an emotional turning point for public mourning of the attacks. For the first time, elected officials weren't speaking at the ceremony, which often allowed them a solemn turn in the spotlight, but raised questions about the public and private Sept. 11. Fewer families attended the ceremonies this year, and some cities canceled their remembrances altogether.
"I feel much more relaxed" this year, said Jane Pollicino, who came to ground zero Tuesday morning to remember her husband, who was killed at the trade center. "After the ninth anniversary, that next day, you started building up to the 10th year. This feels a lot different, in that regard. It's another anniversary that we can commemorate in a calmer way, without that 10-year pressure."
As bagpipes played at the year-old Sept. 11 memorial in New York, family clutching balloons, flowers and photos of their loved ones bowed their heads in silence at 8:46 a.m., the moment that the first hijacked jetliner crashed into the trade center's north tower, and again to mark the crashes into the second tower, the Pentagon and a Pennsylvania field.
President Barack Obama and first lady Michelle Obama observed the moment in a ceremony on the White House's south lawn, and then laid a white floral wreath at the Pentagon, above a concrete slab that said "Sept. 11, 2001 - 937 am."
Victims' families in New York began the solemn, familiar ritual of tearfully reading the names of nearly 3,000 killed, with personal messages to their lost loved ones.
"Rick, can you hear your name as the roll is called again? On this sacred ground where your dust settled?" said Richard Blood, whose son, Richard Middleton Blood, Jr., died in the trade center's south tower. "If only those who hear your name could know what a loving son and beautiful person you grew to be. I love you, son, and miss you terribly."
Thousands had attended the ceremony in New York in previous years, including last year's milestone 10th anniversary. About 1,000 gathered by Tuesday morning, making paper rubbings of their loved ones' names etched onto the Sept. 11 memorial.
Commuters rushed out of the subway and fewer police barricades were in place than in past years in the lower Manhattan neighborhood surrounding ground zero. More than 4 million people have visited the memorial in the past year, becoming more of a public space than a closed-off construction site. On Tuesday, much of downtown Manhattan bustled like a regular weekday, except for clusters of police and emergency vehicles on the borders of the site.
Families had a mixed reaction to the changing ceremony, which kept politicians away from the microphone in New York for the first time. Charles G. Wolf, whose wife, Katherine, was killed at the trade center, said: "We've gone past that deep, collective public grief." But Pollicino said it's important that politicians still attend the ceremony.
"There's something missing if they're not here at all," she said. "Now, all of a sudden, it's 'for the families.' This happened to our country - it didn't happen only to me."
And Joe Torres, who put in 16-hour days in ground zero's "pit" in the days after the attacks, cleaning up tons of debris, said another year has changed nothing for him.
"The 11th year, for me, it's the same as if it happened yesterday. It could be 50 years from now, and to me, it'll be just as important as year one, or year five or year ten."
Political leaders still are welcome to attend the ground zero ceremony, and they are expected at the other commemorations, as well.
The Obamas planned later to visit wounded soldiers at Walter Reed Army Medical Center. The U.S. terror attacks were followed by wars in Afghanistan and Iraq, where the U.S. military death toll years ago surpassed the 9/11 victim count. At least 1,987 U.S. troops have died in Afghanistan and 4,475 in Iraq, according to the Pentagon.
Allied military forces marked the anniversary at a short ceremony at NATO's headquarters in Kabul, Afghanistan with a tribute to more than 3,000 foreign troops killed in the decade-long war.
"Eleven years on from that day there should be no doubt that our dedication to this commitment, that commitment that was seared into our souls that day so long ago, remains strong and unshaken," said Marine Gen. John Allen, the top commander of U.S. and coalition troops.
Scores gathered at the Flight 93 National Memorial in western Pennsylvania, where the fourth hijacked plane crashed into a Pennsylvania field. Biden and Secretary of the Interior Ken Salazar were to speak at the ceremony for the flight's 40 victims.
Other ceremonies were held across the country - from New York's Long Island, where hundreds wrote messages to their loved ones on a memorial, to Boston, where more than 200 people with ties to Massachusetts were remembered. But some cities scaled back - the suburb of Glen Rock, N.J., where 11 people were killed, did not hold a memorial this year for the first time. Past events often ran for several hours, with speeches, music and the laying of roses in front of a granite memorial built with remnants of trade center steel.
"It was appropriate for this year - not that the losses will ever be forgotten," said Brad Jordan, chairman of a community group that helps victims' families. "But we felt it was right to shift the balance a bit from the observance of loss to a commemoration of how the community came together to heal."
The anniversary led to a brief pause in the presidential campaign as Obama and Republican challenger Mitt Romney pulled their negative ads and avoided campaign rallies. Romney shook hands with firefighters at Chicago's O'Hare Airport and was flying to Nevada to address the National Guard, whose members deployed after the attacks. His running mate, Rep. Paul Ryan of Wisconsin, had no scheduled public events.
The memorial foundation announced this summer that politicians wouldn't be included this year, to separate politics from the ceremony. But others said keeping elected officials off the rostrum smacked of ... politics. And several said they were unwilling to let go.
"Coming here, it's like ripping off a Band-Aid," said Yasmin Leon, whose sister was killed at the trade center. "You rip it off and the wound is opened again. But you keep coming back anyway."
And at ground zero, family members reading their loved ones' names said the passage of time did not change their grief.
"Mark, they say time heals all wounds. It's not true, Mark," said Joanne Hindy, whose nephew died in the north tower. "There's a void in all our lives because this that will never ever be filled or healed."
To move on is not to forget. You can let go. You must let go. If you don't it will eat you alive and fill you with so much hate that you will become the very thing we fight against. I'm glad the media has finally stopped shoving this down our throats every year, or at least toned it down. It was a sad and terrible day for sure but it is time to remember it quietly, privately, Â for those who were truly affected.
may those who lost their lives by the cowardly attack rest in peace...and love....  we'll keep you in our hearts...
 @CIAassassin I'm moved by your speech, CIA.  I was in NY when it happened, and the memory of it is still vivid.
Has it come to this point in this country that we need to speed through everything?!?! Its been over 10 years since 9/11....so lets, you know move on. That is straight up f*u*c**ed up. This mentality has got to stop. It pisses me off when I see "Memorial" day sales. I refuse to buy anything on Memorial Day, especially if it is on sale. We should always stop for a second on the anniversary of days that are marked by massive sadness and severe loss. I guarantee you, in 30 years they will have Patriot day sales and door buster specials on 9/11. Disgusting. I'll move on from this day when I keel over.
It's really too early to think that everyone has forgotten about 9/11 but at some point that will be the case. It will just be a part of history. You hardly hear much at all when the anniversary of Pearl Harbor comes around. Nobody is left alive from WWI or before so that era is now just a part of history. The sad part is there's very little that is said or done for the thousands who lost their lives in Korea and Vietnam and many from that era are still alive.
So much for "never forgetting"!
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R.I.P. Soldiers, Sailors, Marines, and Airmen lost in the war and the innocent victims of NYC who were lost on 9/11.
Sadly, there is a new report out that uncovers yet more evidence that the Bush administration was warned in the spring of 2001 by the CIA of a "group presently within the US" planning an imminent attack, well before the August intelligence briefing, "Bin Laden Determined to Strike in U.S."
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The Pentagon pushed back against the CIA, claiming that Bin Laden was just spreading propaganda. The administration didn't take the CIA warnings seriously according to the report, but the CIA continued to warn the Bush administration throughout the summer months. Â
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Can you hang up the foil hat for just one day and leave the politics out? You can have the rest of the year to bash on Bush.
 @caphillkid Clinton had a total three chances to kill Bid Laden. He had been approved by the Joint Chiefs, NMCA, SOCCOM, and US Middle East Command. he had also been legally covered by the Supreme Court each time under President Kennedy Executive Order and had been authorized by Congress to use CIA or any other assets President Clinton deemed necessary to execute the kill order. Each time Clinton felt that Bid Laden was not a threat to the US, that and he was busy jerking off on blue dresses. So before you start forcing us to wade through your political drooling perhaps you should realize that both parties have been responsible for not reacting to threats to this country for many years. Do you realize the vast volume of military and intelligence reports our services get on an hourly basis??? They get reports about citizens who they deem to be "extreme and anti government" too. So you are basing your blame solely on the fact that President Bush did not responded to the threat that Bid Laden posed to us solely on his new presidency after getting all those reports daily. God forbid that he didn't see that coming. The problem with 9/11 is that an enemy will always attack you when your at your strongest and exploit your weakest spot. You know...like Art of War man.
 @caphillkid I read that article yesterday. Seems the NeoCons in the Pentagon were so fixated on Iraq and Saddam Hussein that they were blind to all else; even suggesting that Bin Laden was working with Hussein in order to create a diversion. The Counter intelligence brass was so frustrated with the lack of concern on behalf of the Bush administration that they even discussed quitting or transferring out of the department so they wouldn't be sitting at the helm (and therefore take the blame) when the inevitable sh#t hit the fan.
 @caphillkid and this is news why?  Clinton had the same info buddy
 @ChrisP Clinton did not have the same info. Go read the report before you get mad. There is zero evidence that Clinton ever got ANY dire warnings from the CIA that an attack was imminent from a group already within the U.S. And I challenge you to show a SINGLE declassified report that proves otherwise. You can't, so take your misdirection and lies somewhere else.Â
No doubt some families have moved to a place where they can grieve privately, and not be part of the yearly media spectacle.Â
Religion seemed a lot less harmful before 911.
 @IslandAtheist You can't be serious? Throughout history more people have been slaughtered in the name of "Religion" than for any other reason. Mankind has always used a belief in one deity or another as an excuse for killing others. This was certainly not a trend that just started on 9/11
The grieving process is different for everyone. There is no right or wrong way to handle such a horrific tragedy so we should never judge the way someone else chooses to reflect on this important day in our country's history.
 @Petwlkr Agreed.... thoughtful and to the point.
There could be many reasons as to why fewer 9/11 families are attending.... distance, safety from others who are nuts looking for a crowd of people to harm, grieving in their own ways, political atmosphere overshadowing those who died etc.! No red blooded American has forgotten those who lost their lives and are still losing their lives to the mistakes of an overblown government, out of control and heading nowhere except downhill in a hurry to put it mildly.
It is time to move forward, remember the past but dont dwell on the past
It is one day, that isn't dwelling. We memoralize the attack on Pearl Harbor, do you think that is dwelling on the past too?
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@2nd Baseman I actually learned to NOT TRUST MY GOVERMENT or what people shove down my throat. I learned that critical thinking and research does a person good!
 @2nd Baseman Oh yes, and those in power abusing American's futures....
I love this country but get over it already. It was sad for a year and it's still sad in a sense that it happened but anyone with a backbone couldn't careless about it on September 12, 2002. You know the saying, cry me a river...
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 @CougsBravesPackersSounders How dare you mock the victims of 9/11. This is a day we must remember, forever. We need to learn from this.  Yes, me need to move on....but also never forget.  Shame on you.
@ChrisP remember it and then what? nuke the middle east? execute Bush and Chenney for war crime? if nothing good or meaningful is going to be done, what is the point of remembering an ATTACK that leads to NOTHING?
Did you just list what you think would be good and meaningful? I really hope not.
 @ChrisP  @CougsBravesPackersSounders He sounds like he was a young kid when it happened, and just doesn't get it.Â
 @caphillkid  @CougsBravesPackersSounders still, it does not matter...no excuse to be insensitive
I doubt that anyone will ever forget that day, but it is time to move forward and not allow it to consume us.
I remember the day very well including exactly where I was standing when the alert came in. Our unit was already deployed in the Mediterranean sea and we immediately went into action.
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Quite a shocking day for our country that I hope we never have to go through again.
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