Names of victims emerge in Colo. theater rampage

AURORA, Colo. (AP) - A sports blogger who recently wrote about surviving a shooting in Canada. A man preparing to celebrate his first wedding anniversary. A young woman whose death announcement brought heartbreak, yet closure, to her family.
They were among the 12 people killed when a gunman barged into a crowded Colorado theater, set off gas canisters and opened fire as spectators dove for cover. Dozens of others were injured, including 11 in critical condition.
For Alex Sullivan, it was to be a weekend of fun: He planned to ring in his 27th birthday with friends at a special midnight showing of "The Dark Knight Rises" and then celebrate his first wedding anniversary on Sunday.
Late Friday, Sullivan's family confirmed that police told them he was among those killed.
"He was a very, very good young man," said Sullivan's uncle, Joe Loewenguth. "He always had a smile, always made you laugh. He had a little bit of comic in him. Witty, smart. He was loving, had a big heart."
Micayla Medek, 23, was also among the dead, her father's cousin, Anita Busch, told the Associated Press.
Busch said the news, while heartbreaking, was a relief for the family after an agonizing day of waiting for news.
"I hope this evil act ... doesn't shake people's faith in God," she said.
A blogger who recently wrote of surviving a Toronto shooting was also among those killed, the woman's brother said.
The death of Jessica Ghawi, who was also known as Jessica Redfield, was a "complete and utter shock," said her brother, Jordan Ghawi.
He has been using his blog and Twitter account to update what he knew about his sister's condition throughout the day. He also appeared on the NBC "Today" show.
Aurora Police Chief Dan Oates said Friday evening at a press conference that the last of the 10 deceased victims from the midnight showing of a Batman movie was removed from the theater Friday afternoon.
Oates said officers expected to get a confirmed list of the dead and meet with their families Friday night.
In addition to the 10 people killed at the theater, two others later died from their injuries.
Jordan Ghawi said on his website that a man who was with his sister at the theater described the chaos, saying he and Jessica Ghawi dropped to take cover when the gunman first started shooting. Jessica Ghawi was shot in the leg, her brother wrote, describing details relayed to him by a man identified on the blog only as a mutual friend named Brent.
Jessica Ghawi began screaming when she was shot, and the friend tried to calm her and stop the bleeding, according to Jordan Ghawi.
The man was then shot, but he continued attending to Jessica Ghawi's wound before he realized she had stopped screaming, Jordan Ghawi stated. The man said Jessica Ghawi had been shot in the head.
Jordan Ghawi said the friend escaped the theater after being shot twice, but he was expected to survive. Jordan Ghawi praised the man, saying his "actions are nothing but heroic."
Jessica Ghawi, 24, moved to Denver from Texas about a year ago and friends and colleagues described her as outgoing, smart and witty.
"She was always kind of a sponge as far as how she could be an even better journalist and sports broadcaster," said Peter Burns, a radio sports show host with Mile High Sports Radio in Denver, where Ghawi recently interned.
Ghawi blogged at length about surviving the Eaton Centre mall shooting in Toronto that killed two people and sent several others to the hospital. Burns and his girlfriend, Lauren Anuskewicz, both said the blog reflected everything she told them.
"She was like, 'You guys would never believe what happened,'" Anuskewicz said.
Jessica Ghawi wrote of the Toronto shooting: "I was shown how fragile life was on Saturday. I saw the terror on bystanders' faces. I saw the victims of a senseless crime. I saw lives change. I was reminded that we don't know when or where our time on Earth will end. When or where we will breathe our last breath."
Anuskewicz said Jessica Ghawi had been in Toronto visiting a boyfriend and "it obviously was a very scary situation."
"And to be just so close to it," she added. "It's just impossible to imagine that not even a month and a half later this would happen, and she would be involved. It's just awful."
Yet, Burns said, Jessica Ghawi seemed more enlivened than intimidated by surviving that shooting.
"After the Toronto incident, I think she even looked at that like, 'Hey, even after that, I'm able to pursue my dream,'" he said.
Burns said he was close to her family. He moved to Denver from Texas a few years ago and talked with Jessica Ghawi about establishing a sports radio career there, he said.
Former colleague Mike Taylor, a sports host at KTKR-AM in San Antonio described how she reluctantly changed her name for her career, taking the name "Redfield" as a play on her red hair because it was easier to say than her given name.
Jessica Ghawi was a prolific social media user under the new name. Her last tweet stated in all capital letters, "movie doesn't start for 20 minutes."
On Saturday morning, parents of John Larimer released a statement that Navy officials notified them about midnight that their 27-year-old son was one of the 12 killed.
The family said that Larimer's brother is working with the Navy to take his body home to Crystal Lake, Ill. He was with a unit that belongs to U.S. Fleet Cyber Command/U.S. Tenth Fleet at Buckley Air Force.
When you think of dangerous countries, first take a look at the following statistics. We must stop worrying about Mexico and start worrying about our own backyard and quiet neighborhoods because a killer may be living next door. The fact is the US is the most dangerous country in the world:
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 @Socialjusticeforall Interesting website you posted. True the US leads in overall crime,but since killing seems to be your point, the US doesn't even make it onto the list of 37 counties as far as murder goes. The US doesn't make the top 50 countries in rape, another violent horrific crime.
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According to the same site the US also leads the world in obesity. Maybe we should be more concerned about the silent killer at the fast food drive-up than the the drive-by shooting
Can we please hear about the other victims! Not sure why they have just been covering this girl. Yes it's sad she was killed but 11 others lost their lives too! It would be nice to hear who they were and I'm sure their families would appreciate it!
@Kittycat -all families have not been notified. There is a 6 year old that was murdered also. Her name has not been released because her mom is still paralyzed and has not been told! Get some facts.
 @Kittycat Not to be rude but if you dont know why this specific young woman was being covered, you didnt read the story. Other individuals identities, like Alex Sullivan who died while attending his 27th bday with co-workers at the film, have to be officially disclosed after families are notified, identified and then released before you'll be privy to it. The only other reason that "this girl", Jessica Redfield was her name, was the first identified is because her companion called Jessica's mother during the assault. A little education goes a long way, kitty.
The US will continue to be a land of the free to kill innocent victims in the hands of crazy people who purchase guns legally. The mass killinngs in Colorado are no different than the horrible suicide bomber attacks in Iraq and Afghanistan. And we talk about Mexico. In Mexico the horrible killings are all in the drug smuggling community who want to get the drug to the US consumers, but in the US women and children (yes our families) are exposed every day to dying in the hands of people with guns. GUN CONTROL IS THE ONLY WAY. Â
Wrong place at the wrong time, there is no reason or predetermined mysterious hand of Fate involved.
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I feel so sorry for the people who died and their families and friends.
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I'll touch briefly on the gun control issue. As WWRJD  pointed out. There is no reason at all for a private citizen to have an automatic weapon. No reason whatsoever. But I'll never give up my handguns, there is one in each night stand. So when I wake up and some drug crazed crack head is in my house I'll have half a chance and he will be in the wrong place at the right time.
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Are you also advocating for our children to carry their guns into the movie theatres and schools? Your arguments are exactly the reason the world thinks we are stillthe "Wild West".
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Wrong place wrong time would be anyplace in the US, because our families are exposed everyday to crazy people with guns. I don't even trust my own neighbors. What kind of "FREE" society have we created? And yet, we talk about Mexico. I laugh at our fear of Mexico and worry about my neighbors.
 @Socialjusticeforall  @Reginald Amen to you for your post.
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People talk about how they will not go to mexico due to the drug lords (who kill other drug lords not citizens).
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Yet we don't even realize the 800 lb gorilla is in our own backyard.
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 @Robinsnest You may not have intended to sound crass, yet you did.  Think out what you want want to say and how it will be perceived prior to posting.  Your intent is irrelevant, when the result is hurtful.Â
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When are we going to wake up as a nation and make changes? When are we going to start holding our law makers accountable? How many more massacres do we have to witness? I'm not anti-gun but guns are the problem. This system is not working. He purchased all his guns legally just like the guy in the U-District massacre. You are insane if you can sit here and say it's not a gun problem. A crazy person can do a lot less damage with a knife, bat, or a rock. There is no good reason why anyone outside of law enforcement should have access to semi-automatic weapons.Â
 @FremontTroll We can ban high cap mags as a start. The shooter used a drum mag. Having a mag which can store and fire 100 rounds is plain crazy. We should have a high mag ban enacted at a national level
 @FremontTroll I have a feeling that without guns the death toll would have been a lot higher in this case. Looking at the news reports for what was in his apartment, he probably would have killed hundreds with such devices.
 @FremontTroll As someone who owns firearms, I agree whole heartedly.
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There is a significant problem with tools designed specifically to maim and kill being readily available.
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That being said this is an extremely complicated issue, one I don't believe will ever be resolved.
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There isn't an argument to refute ones right to defend themselves their loved ones and their property.
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Unfortunately so long as weapons of lethal force exist so will the prospect of inconceivable actions such as this.
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 @kybhotbs  @FremontTroll In Norway, 80 people were killed on that horrible day. However, those were the vast majority of all shootings in Norway that year. To compare, in America we lose 85 lives to gun violence EVERY DAY. Clearly something is terribly wrong here.
My condolence to her family and friends for such a tragic loss !!
Don't know why God takes back good people very soon and leave the loved ones in sorrows !!
 @Derek J maybe Its not God doing that.
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Deepest sympathies to family and friends.
Its unfortunate that she died. Whats more insensitive is if you look at her twitter post, some random person interjects themselves into some banter between Jessica and a friend during her final tweet. Very rude.
I'm sorry that it happened to her. Not trying to sound insensitive, but humans are supposedly smart, and can learn from their mistakes. Why didn't she learn that bad stuff can happen anywhere, any time, and train and arm herself accordingly, so that she'd never again be helpless and hopeless, waiting for someone else with a gun to come and save her?
@RN1 Please be quiet already. Your long, long comments make no sense to anyone but you.
@mamyers64 Spoken as one who plans on being a victim, because you refuse to learn from history by thinking about it critically. Sad.
@RN1 what??? This makes no sense whatsoever. It is true that you never know, but honestly now. Should she have stayed home indoors for the rest of her life because she literally managed to dodge a bullet. Silly.
 @Nanamamabjm  @RN1 I do NOT mean she should have stayed home - to do so would let the cowards, madmen, and nuts win. But you CAN train and prepare so that if something similar happens again, you are not stuck in the same helpless / hopeless situation.
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Someone who has had a flat tire becomes serious about checking their spare. Someone who has experience a house fire become serious about fire extinguishers and avoiding open flames. Someone who has been around a serious home accident gets a much improved first-aid kit. Why should someone who had a close brush with a violent nut-case NOT get the appropriate training and hardware, so that they have an *improved* chance (if not any guarantees)? It seems a non-sequiter.
@WWRJD You are right in a way - a person can't know until they are actually IN combat how they will react. I've read enough military history, and known enough guys in uniform, to know that. BUT - you react how you train and think -if you are trained "do what they say, wait for the prefessional," which IS what is taught in most schools, and is the limit of self-defense training many people get, and that is how most people rspond. I DON'T train that way, and there are others like me who ALSO don't train that way. If you carry a gun for self defense, I hope you ALSO don't train for being passive once a line is crossed.
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if I were in the middle of a theater when that went down, and I was suddenly surrounded by a fearful mob, I might well have no change to do anything other than try not to get crushed, or I might have been one of the first shot; I recognize that. Even someone far better repared than I, if they were in the wrong part of the theater, might not be able to do anything because of the smoke, press of the crowd, darkness, etc. That is why training virtually EVERYONE to CHARGE THE AMBUSH is the best way to make places safer. THAT is my main point - essentially everyone ran, making the gunmans job easier.
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Do you know why the British "Redcoats" wore red? It was so that deserters could been easily seen (and shot on the spot). The *safest* place at that time was to be was in formation, doing what you were told, which was shooting the enemy. while running away (if you could do it) may be short term safer for you personally at that moment, it increased the chances that more of your fellow soldiers would die, and your side would lose teh battle, and be more likely to lose the war. It is NOT intuitive or obvious that standing and fighting is safer than running away in fear, but in every recent large mass shooting (Aurora, VA Tech, Columbine, Toronto, etc) A pretty good case can be made that the body count would have been much lower if everyone had just charged the gunman, tackled him, and had giant pile-on to disarm and disable him.
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Or are you saying that having 70 people shot was a best possible outcome for such a theater shooting scenario? Are YOU going to refuse to learn from such an event, too?
@WWRJD it's only indefensible if you do not understand what I'm saying (more broadly outlined below). Self defense isn't a tool - it's a mindset, which tools such as guns help enable. He was in a relativly small room full of people, yet had time to reload a couple of times; he had that time ONLY because no-one was trying to fight back, with anything. The government keeps telling citizens "let a professional do it," and when an emergency comes up where there are no professionals to help and every second counts, they have been trained to still refuse to help themselves. If everyone rushed him, it would be over in seconds - ugly, but over. Certainly no worse than 71 people shot.
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Of course, if he was a little more skilled with gasoline bombs, and tried to re-create the Happy Lands Nightclub fire, there might easily have been hundreds dead, so it's likey a good thing he decided he wanted to use guns more than he wanted a high body count.
@Cherise Moore For some reason my first reply went below, as a reply to my own post.
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"how could SHE have Prevented it?" Likley not, but that's an extreamly narrow view of the problem, as explained below.
âLetâs roll!â What do Todd Beamerâs words mean today, post 9-11? To me, they mean that when evil people have demonstrated they are PLANNING on killing people, then the ONLY option is for EVERYONE ELSE to go after them in an immediate all-out no-holds-barred assault. It means that to run, hide, or wait for a rescuer IS TO DIE. There decision had been made â the second heâs an active shooter, ATTACK is the ONLY option for everyone physically capable of moving themselves. Â
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I would agree that this particular event is sort of a textbook âworst-case scenarioâ for a concealed carry person, sort of a âKobayashi Maruâ â dark theater, crowds, loud action on the screen, smoke / gas, armored assailant with multiple guns. But it is a room full of people, many of which are young men. If heâs pointing his gun at me, then HEâS NOT POINTING AT YOU! And, just as importantly, vice-versa. You are NOT ALONE. If the people closest to him had ALL charged him (or even several of them), with the intent to grab the rifle, grab his arm, use his helmet as a screw-top lid that they really HAVE to open, then he would have gone down fast. Once he was on the ground, then the body armor, helmet, extra three guns, and ammo strapped on his body are all working against him â gravity is NOT his friend at that point.
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You are right that if itâs just me all alone with a concealed gun in its holster against him 5 yards away already pointing a rifle at me, yup â Iâm pretty much screwed. But that is thinking about the whole world as if you are the only one in it. You are NOT. That scenario is not THIS scenario. Itâs the herd mentality of âwait for the professionalsâ that got 71 people shot. I see almost no way that *attempting* to do something would have made it significantly worse, and a lot of ways that if several people had channeled their inner action hero / marine / Todd Beamer / mama bear, it would have been over fairly quickly, once people realized it wasnât a movie stunt.
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Instead of training people to NOT be victims and how to recognize evil (itâs the guy shooting at you), weâll be bombarded by people with proposals that will be very cost-ineffective, cost of freedom, and, ultimately, make us less human, and less American.
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There is an old Norse saying â âa knifeless man is a lifeless man.â But a knife (or gun) is only of use if you are willing to defend yourself with it, meaning you have to have the *attitude* of ânever surrender! I may die, but I'll sell my life dearly!â And that is what we, as free people, as Americans, need to reclaim.
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As I said â Iâm sorry she died. I just donât understand her attitude that lead her there.
 @Cherise Moore Thank you, Cherise. I like that this comment comes from someone who carries, as well, so people on both sides of the issue might actually hear what you're saying. What RN1 said is indefensible.Â
 @RN1 I'm sorry but how do you defend yourself against a gun aimed at your head? Are you joking me?! I carry a .38 everywhere I go and i know self defense but there is NOTHING you can do in the situation except try not to be seen. This is so insensitive, I'm literally at a loss for words.. you have obviously never been in a life threatening situation. HOW COULD SHE HAVE PREVENTED THIS?!
Oh My God!!! Talk about fate! I am almost literally speechless on that! That's just nuts! What are the chances, 1 in a million? Thoughts and prayers to her family!
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Things are not getting better.  It is a daily occurrence and we are letting it happen.  I do feel we can thank the Media for part of this irrational behavior.  The laws allow anyone to have weapons or the access to weapons is open to anyone still.  God help us and bless the victims and their families.Â
 This has nothing to do with gun control or the media. I'm not sure what is going on, but it's a cultural/psychological problem, not a gun control problem. I wish we didn't have guns at all in this country and am generally in support of stricter gun controls, but the issue to be concerned about is what is leading so many people to the point of violence. Regardless of how easy or difficult the law makes it to get a gun, the problem with someone who shoots innocent people is that the person wanted to shoot innocent people. If this person had been unable to get a gun, they could just as easily have made a bomb or whatever.Â
 @merline It has everything to do with guns and as long as people like you continue to deny this we will deal with these kinds of tragedies. What does the massacre in Seattle and the one in Colorado have in common? Guns. There is no getting around that. There are crazy people everywhere and we can't stop that but there is no reason why anyone outside of law enforcement should have access to semi-automatic weapons. These aren't used for hunting, they are used for killing humans. I'm all for being patriotic and protecting our civil rights but these ancient beliefs have to go. 10,000 murders by guns a year in America. I think your attitude would change if it was your son, daughter or parent that was killed. Â
@FremontTroll @merline And here I thought what they had in common were nut-jobs. What do the murder of roughly 150,000,000 citizens by their own communist governments in the 20th C have in common? Gun control. Hmmm...
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As for what type of weapon is used, AR15s ARE used in some hunting, AND in several shooting sports. But that is irrelevant - what part of a right "shall not be infringed" isn't clear? Or are you also of the opinion that publications and churches should be approved by the government?
 @FremontTroll Crazy people don't become less crazy just because they can't legally buy guns. I agree with you completely that nobody outside of law enforcement should have access to this type of weapon, but making them illegal is not going to make it impossible for crazy people to get them. Even if they were impossible to obtain, that crazy person is still gonna be crazy and can find another way to kill people. I'm not saying that we shouldn't bother to ban these weapons, but that is not the solution to this problem. I mean, do you really think that it would be more effective to make it illegal for a mentally ill/homicidal person to buy a semi-automatic weapon than it would be to mandate treatment/hospitalization for that person? Drugs are also illegal, yet we still have plenty of drug addicts.Â
 @bille57182 These massacres are a daily occurrence?  Do tell...
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Yes, this is tragic, but for crying out loud, people - there's no need to bring up the tired, overplayed, dead-horse-beating gun control topic. Â Just stop it.
Wow. That does suck!
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Justice Seeker said it right. Final Destination.
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R.I.P. and comfort wishes to her family.
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The odds of that must be unimaginable and yet it happened to this young woman. Rest in peace to her and the other victims of both shootings.
That is like something out of one of the Final Destination movies. Creepy and so sad.
 @JusticeSeeker I was just thinkin that - spooky.